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		<description><![CDATA[In this age of information overload, it’s becoming more and more challenging to find and utilize the best educational resources available for our kids. That&#8217;s why I find it my duty and responsibility to share important educational websites that my girls find and love. One such site is Verizon Thinkfinity &#8211; an award-winning free digital [...]<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/verizon-thinkfinity-free-lesson-plans-educational-resources">Verizon Thinkfinity – Free Lesson Plans and Educational Resources</a> is a post from: <a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com">American Muslim Mom Blog</a></p>
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<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/homeschool-saturday-button.png"><img class="size-full wp-image-4243 alignleft" title="Homeschool Saturday button" src="http://americanmuslimmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/homeschool-saturday-button.png" alt="" width="125" height="125" /></a>In  this age of information overload, it’s becoming more and more  challenging to find and utilize the best educational resources available  for our kids. That&#8217;s why I find it my duty and responsibility to share important educational websites that my girls find and love. One such site is<a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/thinkfinity" target="_blank"> </a><strong><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/thinkfinity" target="_blank">Verizon Thinkfinity</a> &#8211; an award-winning  free digital experience that brings to life  educational resources,  interactive games, lesson plans, news and  webinars to encourage  excellence in students, parents and teachers  alike.</strong></p>
<h2><strong>Free Educational Resources online<br />
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<p>This site is supported by Verizon Foundation. They partnered with nationally  recognized leaders in educational disciplines including literacy, math,  humanities and science to create this free educational resource site. Content Partners produce the program&#8217;s discipline-specific,  standards-based web sites. Each site includes</p>
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<li>Lessons for teachers, homeschool parents/guardians, an other interested educators,</li>
<li>Activities to use in and out of the classroom,</li>
<li>Games for young children  and teens,</li>
<li>Adult literacy resources, and</li>
<li>Reference materials for anyone  in the education field, as well as for parents and after-school  practitioners.</li>
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<p>All content is classroom-ready, held to state-specific  standards and has been put through careful expert review.</p>
<p>Disciplines include, but are not limited to, discipline including arts, economics,  geography, history, literature, reading, math, science and social  studies.</p>
<h2>Networking Community for Teachers, Parents &amp; Educators</h2>
<p>When  you become part of the Thinkfinity Community you also have access   to a network of parents and teachers who are just as inspired as you are  to help their children learn and grow in a fun, engaging way.  You can network with like-minded people (such as teachers,  parents and educators) and share ideas, plans and advice with others in the education  community.</p>
<h1>Join Today for Free</h1>
<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/thinkfinity" target="_blank">Click here to  register!</a></p>
<h2>User-friendly interface to help Parents &amp; Kids have fun learning</h2>
<p>Navigating  th<a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/thinkfinity"><img class="size-full wp-image-5449 alignright" title="thinkfinity" src="http://americanmuslimmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/thinkfinity_125x125.gif" alt="" width="125" height="125" /></a>rough Thinkfinity is designed for ease of user experience whether  you’re a child or adult. The free online community even offers tools to help  you organize your resources.</p>
<p>Thinkfinity  helps parents work with children to give them the tools to learn in a  structured yet fun interactive environment. Families and kids of all  ages will find excellent resources for practice, play, projects and  reports on Thinkfinity.org.</p>
<p>You can search for a specific topic, or  choose from recommended activities, maps, games, reading lists and  homework help. <strong>All K-12 resources are grade-specific. </strong></p>
<h3>Examples of a few interactive games and tools that parents and kids can explore</h3>
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<li>An interactive geometric dictionary to enrich language and visual associations</li>
<li>A customized mapmaking tool that allows you to explore any region in the world</li>
<li>Essay writing tools that help you structure and plan out your essays</li>
<li>Astronomy exploration that allows you to compare the size of planets</li>
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<p>An  additional goal Thinkfinity is to help educators motivate their  students to successfully navigate and engage with the world while  furthering their own development as teachers.</p>
<p>By  providing free online tools, Verizon Thinkfinity is taking an active  role in furthering achievement and helping kids and adults reach their  goals within a powerful educational community. <strong><em>Engaging with Verizon  Thinkfinity is a fantastic way to protect and support children and  teens.</em></strong><br />
<a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/thinkfinitysignup"><img class="alignleft" style="border: 0pt none;" src="http://parentsandteacherscommunity.com/campaign_assets/26/Community_300x250_approved_5_9.jpg?vaid=408&amp;stid=1&amp;a=1&amp;aid=408" border="0" alt="" width="300" height="250" /></a><img src="http://tlml.net/c.php?a=1&amp;aid=408&amp;stid=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></p>
<h2>Online Middle &amp; High School Lesson Plans/Courses</h2>
<p>My girls and I will be actively exploring this site over the next few months, and we&#8217;ll be sharing our views on<a href="http://kidbloggersclub.com" target="_blank"> Kid Bloggers Club. </a>To date, we are extremely impressed with the organization of the site, the vast array of educational resources, and most importantly the middle &#8211; high school interactive, engaging lessons.</p>
<p>As you know we homeschool our girls primarily with online resources. All of their core and some non-secular courses, such as Arabic, Qur&#8217;an, financial management, and entrepreneurship are taught online. However, we&#8217;re never very satisfied with what&#8217;s available for online high school that&#8217;s economical and engaging. So far, Thinkfinity has filled this current void.</p>
<blockquote><p>Seeking your input, questions, concerns or issues. Please kindly comment below.</p></blockquote>
<p><em>Disclosure: </em><em>This post is sponsored by the Verizon Foundation. We were   not   influenced  in  anyway to   share only  positive   remarks. After  all,   lying  is haram    (prohibited).  <img src="../wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";-)" /> You’re welcome to read American Muslim Mom’s <a href="../disclosure-policy">disclosure policy</a> and <a href="../contest-disclosure">contest disclosure</a>.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/verizon-thinkfinity-free-lesson-plans-educational-resources">Verizon Thinkfinity – Free Lesson Plans and Educational Resources</a> is a post from: <a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com">American Muslim Mom Blog</a></p>
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		<title>The Game of LIFE – Reviews by Kids for Kids</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Dec 2010 15:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My sisters and I enjoy The Game of LIFE because you learn things that can really happen in life like losing your job and how to handle and take care of a lot of money (The Game of LIFE uses thousand dollar bills). To start off in The Game of LIFE you need to choose [...]<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/game-life-reviews-kids-kids">The Game of LIFE – Reviews by Kids for Kids</a> is a post from: <a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com">American Muslim Mom Blog</a></p>
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<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FHasbro-4000-Game-of-Life%2Fdp%2FB00000IWD7%3Fie%3DUTF8%26qid%3D1293411644%26sr%3D8-1&amp;tag=empowerwomenn-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325"><img class="alignleft" src="http://ordable.com/img/lists/how-board-games-can-be-made-into-movies/items/0906200978011the-game-of-life-1.jpg" alt="" width="288" height="204" /></a>My sisters and I enjoy <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FHasbro-4000-Game-of-Life%2Fdp%2FB00000IWD7%3Fie%3DUTF8%26qid%3D1293411644%26sr%3D8-1&amp;tag=empowerwomenn-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325"><strong><em>The Game of LIFE</em></strong></a> because you learn things that can really happen in <strong>life</strong> like losing your job and how to handle and take care of a lot of money (<strong><em>The Game of LIFE</em></strong> uses thousand dollar bills). To start off in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FHasbro-4000-Game-of-Life%2Fdp%2FB00000IWD7%3Fie%3DUTF8%26qid%3D1293411644%26sr%3D8-1&amp;tag=empowerwomenn-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325"><strong><em>The Game of LIFE</em></strong></a> you need to choose if you want to &#8220;go to college&#8221; or &#8220;start your career&#8221;. Also, throughout the game you have a choice to return to college when it says &#8220;return to school&#8221; or &#8220;go on with life&#8221;. There are many more choices in <strong><em>The Game of LIFE</em></strong> just like there are many choices you need to make in life. In life you get married, have kids and become a grandparent well this also happens in <strong><em>The Game of LIFE</em></strong>.</p>
<h3>Mama&#8217;s Notes</h3>
<p>Interestingly, Hasbro has change the life choices in the <strong><em>The Game of Life</em></strong> since we were younger. So, playing this game with different choices, pertinent to life today, is totally different then when we were kids. Then, again Life was totally different as kids (period).</p>
<blockquote><p>We&#8217;re a big board game family, so we&#8217;d love if you share your favorite games with us below. Thanks!</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/game-life-reviews-kids-kids">The Game of LIFE – Reviews by Kids for Kids</a> is a post from: <a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com">American Muslim Mom Blog</a></p>
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		<title>Divorce or Stay Together – a Difficult Challenge for Parents</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 13:54:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The difficult, sensitive and personal topic of Divorce never gets the attention it deserves. Most often, people start to discuss things openly after the divorce already took place. Then, with regret and remorse, the divorcees (both husband and wife) have to work hard-to-fix issues that may not have compounded into a &#8220;problem&#8221; if they simply [...]<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/divorce-stay-difficult-challenge-parents">Divorce or Stay Together – a Difficult Challenge for Parents</a> is a post from: <a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com">American Muslim Mom Blog</a></p>
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<p><a href="http://frylake.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/children-during-divorce.gif"><img class="alignleft" src="http://frylake.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/children-during-divorce.gif" alt="" width="264" height="132" /></a>The difficult, sensitive and personal topic of Divorce never gets the attention it deserves. Most often, people start to discuss things openly after the divorce already took place. Then, with regret and remorse, the divorcees (both husband and wife) have to work hard-to-fix issues that may not have compounded  into a &#8220;problem&#8221; if they simply sought the appropriate professional advice (or advice altogether) in the first place.</p>
<p>This is why the editorial staff of American Muslim Mom feel compelled to bring these issues to your attention while educating you with tips, tools and resources to help families experiencing rough times. Most importantly, you must remember that the day you choose to start a family by bringing children into your lives&#8211;its critical to always think of their needs first. Please always put your child/ren&#8217;s health, safety and physical, mental and emotional well-being at the top of you list when making any decisions, especially divorce.</p>
<p>We are proud to introduce you to the Divorce Columnist, dear friend and colleague: Rosalind Sedacca, CCT.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Those who take an oath to keep apart from their wives are given four months (for a final decision).(A) Then, if they resume their relations, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. And if they resolve on divorce,(B) (let them remember that ) Allah hears everything and knows everything.  Divorce may be pronounced twice; then either the wife be kept honourably or parted with gracefully.(C)(  Surah Al-Baqara, Chapter 2, Verse 227-229).</p>
<h2>Tafsir (Commentary and explanation of the Qur&#8217;anic verses) regarding Divorce:</h2>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">(A) Although it is true that relations between husband and wife do not always remain cordial, yet Allah&#8217;s law does not allow that the strained relations should continue indefinitely. Therefore it lays down the maximum period of four months for a separation in which they legally remain husband and wife but practically live separate lives without any conjugal relations between them. Such a separation is termed &#8220;ila&#8221; in the Islamic code of Law. During this period they must either make a reconciliation between themselves or part for good so that they may be free to marry a suitable person of their liking.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">(B) According to the verdict of Caliph `Uthman, lbn Mas&#8217;ud, Zaid bin Thabit and some other jurists, they can reunite only within four months. The expiry of this term itself is a proof that the husband has decided upon divorce. Hence after its expiry, divorce will automatically take place and the husband will forfeit the right of reunion during the waiting term. If, however, both of them agree, they can remarry.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">(C) That is, &#8221;Fear Allah and do not divorce your wives for frivolous and unjustifiable reasons, for He knows everything.&#8221;</p>
<h2>The Choice to Stay Together or Get a Divorce</h2>
<p>This is a tough and controversial subject. There are no right or wrong answers, nor are there any simplistic black and white solutions. I am sharing my own perspective, based on my own life experiences. I welcome you to contribute your own perspective as long as you are respectful of the rights of others to see the world in a different light.</p>
<p>I am the author of a new book about parenting and divorce. I also grew up in a family that stayed together for the sake of the kids, so I have a good perspective on both sides of this topic. Obviously neither option is one any family would choose – they both create pain and hurt.</p>
<p>However, I am opting in on the side of divorce as preferable to years of living in a home where parents fight, disrespect one another and children grow up surrounded by sadness and anger. That’s the world I grew up in and the scars are still with me today, many decades later. Dr. Phil often says, “I’d rather come from a dysfunctional family than be in one.” I firmly believe he’s right.</p>
<p>Staying in a marriage only for the kids is a physical choice that doesn’t touch upon the emotional and psychological pain children endure when their parents are a couple in name only. There is no positive role model of how marriage can and should be lived. Happiness, harmony, collaboration, respect and joy are all absent when parents are emotionally divorced while still living together. Children feel it, are confused by it, often blame themselves, are usually guilt-ridden and experience little peace in childhood.</p>
<p>That’s why I chose the other route when my marriage was failing. However, I intuitively understood what not to do in divorce. I consciously created what I call a child-centered divorce, co-parented with my former husband, shared custody and maintained a positive relationship with my ex for the decade to follow. Most gratifying for me is the satisfaction of my now adult son writing the introduction to my new book, acknowledging the merits of my philosophy and behavior.</p>
<p>If parents have the maturity and determination to re-connect, get professional assistance and stay together in a renewed commitment to marriage, that would absolutely be ideal. The entire family will benefit and the healing will be a blessing. However, if children are being raised in a war zone or in the silence and apathy of sleep-walking through a dead marriage, divorce may open the door to a healthier, happier future for all concerned. But only – and this is the key point &#8212; only if parents consciously work on creating a harmonious, collaborative child-centered divorce that puts the children’s emotional and psychological needs first!</p>
<p>Rosalind Sedacca, CCT is a relationship seminar facilitator and author of the ebook, How Do I Tell the Kids … about the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook Guide to Preparing Your Children &#8212; with Love!. For free articles, her blog, valuable resources  on child-centered divorce or to subscribe to her free ezine, go to: <a href="http://www.childcentereddivorce.com">www.childcentereddivorce.com</a></p>
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		<title>Home schooling&#8211;It just doesn&#8217;t matter</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Apr 2006 08:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Home schooling&#8211;It just doesn&#8217;t matter I just ran across this article today, and I had to post it&#8211;in hopes that my two dear friends will find &#8220;peace&#8221; with their &#8220;almost-readiness-to-commit-to-homeschool&#8221; decision&#8230;especially when it comes to curriculum. Here&#8217;s a long-timer, homeschooling her 3 kids since 1996&#8230;and look at the title! Oh and please&#8230;my dears, laugh! It&#8217;s [...]<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/home-schoolingit-matter">Home schooling&#8211;It just doesn&#8217;t matter</a> is a post from: <a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com">American Muslim Mom Blog</a></p>
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<p>Home schooling&#8211;It just doesn&#8217;t matter</p>
<p>I just ran across this article today, and I had to post it&#8211;in hopes that my two dear friends will find &#8220;peace&#8221; with their &#8220;almost-readiness-to-commit-to-homeschool&#8221; decision&#8230;especially when it comes to curriculum. Here&#8217;s a long-timer, homeschooling her 3 kids since 1996&#8230;and look at the title!</p>
<p>Oh and please&#8230;my dears, laugh! It&#8217;s meant to be funny, it is funny&#8230;and if you don&#8217;t laugh, at least find strength, that she speaks the Truth!</p>
<p><strong>Homeschooling? It Just Doesn&#8217;t Matter</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;You know, it just doesn&#8217;t matter.&#8221;</p>
<p>This thought bounced into my head during one of my endless internet research expeditions, trying to find the &#8220;right&#8221; curriculum. After home schooling since 1996, I now realize what others have been saying all along: it just doesn&#8217;t matter.</p>
<p>Please don&#8217;t misunderstand me. Education matters a great deal, but all the fuss about this or that program, this or that method, this or that curriculum package, is just that: fuss, and not substance.</p>
<p>My kids never once finished a spelling book, and guess what? They spell just fine. They probably won&#8217;t win a national spelling bee, but they do all right. How did that happen? I don&#8217;t know. I do know that it wasn&#8217;t due to my expert teaching skills.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not even sure how my son learned to read, but as he sat next to me this morning reading to me I thought, &#8220;How did this happen?&#8221; Because I honestly don&#8217;t remember teaching him to read as well as he does.</p>
<p>I guess it&#8217;s just a matter of providing the environment and a little motivation. Kids learn what they need to learn, when they need to learn it. It&#8217;s rather miraculous, when I think about it, when I look back and see that it just seemed to happen.</p>
<p>Oh, yea, I put in my share of sweat about the whole thing, but now I see what author Marva Collins means: &#8220;Anything works if the teacher works.&#8221; I always thought she was right, and now I know it.</p>
<p>So am I excited about homeschooling? Yes and no. Like the rest of life, it will be whatever it is: wonderful, boring, bla bla bla. But somehow my kids will get what they need, and that&#8217;s very satisfying to know.</p>
<p>Jennifer Thieme began homeschooling her three children in 1996. She is the administrator of a small, private ISP she established for her own family and several of her friends. She has been published in Practical Homeschooling and the Intuit ProConnection Newsletter. She operates a bookkeeping and tax service from her home. You may visit her business website at <a href="http://www.jenniferthieme.com/" target="_new">http://www.jenniferthieme.com/</a>.<br />
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		<title>TheHomeSchoolMom.com</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Apr 2006 08:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[TheHomeSchoolMom.com -what a sweet find! Weekly recipes in a rush, Free curriculum websites already nicely listed, Software downloads, Activity sheets, and Much more! Hey, there&#8217;s a recommendation for a WriteShop! geared to 7th-11th graders, but as low as 4th-graders are using it&#8230;hmm&#8230;I&#8217;m developing my girls writing Right now&#8211;5.5 year and less. Any thoughts anyone? A [...]<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/thehomeschoolmomcom">TheHomeSchoolMom.com</a> is a post from: <a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com">American Muslim Mom Blog</a></p>
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<p><a href="http://www.TheHomeSchoolMom.com" target="_new">TheHomeSchoolMom.com </a>-what a sweet find!</p>
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<li>Hey, there&#8217;s a recommendation for a WriteShop! geared to 7th-11th graders, but as low as 4th-graders are using it&#8230;hmm&#8230;I&#8217;m developing my girls writing Right now&#8211;5.5 year and less. Any thoughts anyone?</li>
<li>A whole &#8220;getting/staying organized&#8221; section. I can think of 1 ultra-Type-A homeschool-girlfriend of mine, who&#8217;d love this section! .</li>
<li>Many, many freebies I can&#8217;t possibly get through them in one-sitting. No doubt I &#8220;bookmarked&#8221; TheHomeSchoolMom!</li>
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<p><a href="http://www.TheHomeSchoolMom.com" target="_new">Click over now</a>, then click back and help share what other &#8216;cool finds&#8217; she has to offer!</p>
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		<title>MusliMama&#8217;s rambling thoughts today&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Apr 2006 08:18:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I apply my unique networking skills to gain the most well-rounded education that I can offer my girls. A joke was recently made that the educational resources I utilize to &#8220;teach&#8221; (home school) my girls, is equivalent to the most sophisticated, high-class, world-renowned resources children of royalty pay their private tutors&#8230;and, we have not spent [...]<p><a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com/muslimamas-rambling-thoughts-today">MusliMama&#8217;s rambling thoughts today&#8230;</a> is a post from: <a href="http://americanmuslimmom.com">American Muslim Mom Blog</a></p>
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<p>I  apply my unique networking skills to gain the most well-rounded education that I can offer my girls.</p>
<p>A joke was recently made that the educational resources I utilize to &#8220;teach&#8221; (home school) my girls, is equivalent to the most sophisticated, high-class, world-renowned resources children of royalty pay their private tutors&#8230;and, we have not spent one-fraction of their costs.</p>
<p>Some may argue, that the Girls have unique parents, because of our successful educational and professional backgrounds, with graduate degrees, with numerous achievements in government, industry, and most recently as entrepreneurs and business owners.</p>
<p>Yet, I highly disagree. I believe that our education and experience are <em>secondary</em> to a <strong>firm belief that every parent has their own highly-successful &amp; unique qualifications to raise, teach, and ultimately make the necessary decisions to offer their children the best possible life (and education) they can offer.</strong></p>
<p>We honestly don&#8217;t know any parents who would disagree with the above statement. Yet, many parents doubt their ability to &#8220;home school&#8221; their children&#8230;as if, they, themselves, have to &#8220;teach&#8221; them everything themselves for 12 years (in Ohio, you don&#8217;t have to notify a child&#8217;s kindergarten year&#8211;more on this subject later).</p>
<p>In this blog, we (my girls &amp; I) will make every attempt to share as many of our home school &#8220;secrets&#8221; to help you succeed, our trials and tribulations, and the many tips and tools shared by our vast network of home school families here in the state of Ohio, specifically the Greater Toledo area.</p>
<p>Please visit often, and share your tips, tools, resources &amp; opinions in the &#8220;comments&#8221; section below.</p>
<p>To our children&#8217;s education! Feel free to disagree or support this post, by sharing your comments below.</p>
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