Defining Intellectual Vitality and Intellectual Curiosity
Ever wondered what Ivy League and top-tier (Top 50) universities and colleges really look for? Well, Antonio Buehler of Buehler Education introduced this amazing term to my girls and I: “Intellectual Vitality”. So, what is it? How do some kids possess this, and others do not?
Intellectual Vitality defined by Stanford University
We want to see your commitment, dedication, and genuine interest in expanding your intellectual horizons; both in what you write about yourself and in what others write on your behalf. We want to see the kind of curiosity and enthusiasm that will allow you to spark a lively discussion in a freshman seminar and continue the conversation at a dinner table. We want to see the energy and depth of commitment you will bring to your endeavors, whether that means in a research lab, while being part of a community organization, during a performance, or on an athletic field. We want to see the initiative with which you seek out opportunities that expand your perspective and that will allow you to participate in creating new knowledge.
Stanford University’s Short Essay #1
- Stanford students possess intellectual vitality. Reflect on an idea or experience that has been important to your intellectual development.
Intellectual Curiosity
According to the IECA’s (Independent Educational Consultants Association) ’Top Ten Strengths and Experiences Colleges look for in High School Students,’ number nine is “Demonstrated intellectual curiosity through reading, school, leisure pursuits, and more.”
Tips From Ivy League & Top-Tier College Admissions Representatives
Stanford University looks for intellectual vitality with a love of learning and interaction with teachers and fellow students. They are looking for the most compelling students, not the most competitive. 75% of the students who apply are qualified. They must look elsewhere for more information. The essay and teacher letters of recommendation are very important. Respect for others is also important.Yale is looking for a unique student. Explain your passion and engage in your classes in high school.
Brown is looking for self-motivated, active thinkers and learners. You need to have a passion about something. Do you have intellectual curiosity?
Harvard is looking for well-cultivated interests, specialists and focused students who are involved.
Princeton is looking for students who challenge themselves and bring a unique viewpoint to campus. The essay needs to fit with you and show your true voice.
Dartmouth wants to know what you will bring to the college. Peer recommendations are important.
University of Chicago is interested in who you are as a thinker.
Homeschoolers Have an Edge!
Back in 2000 Stanford University demonstrated that homeschoolers are “In a Class by Themselves”.
Admission officers sum it up in two words: intellectual vitality.
It’s hard to define, but they swear they know it when they see it. It’s the spark, the passion, that sets the truly exceptional student–the one driven to pursue independent research and explore difficult concepts from a very early age–apart from your typical bright kid. Stanford wants students who have it.
Looking very closely at homeschoolers is one way to get more of those special minds, the admission office has discovered. As Reider explains it: “Homeschooled students may have a potential advantage over others in this, since they have consciously chosen and pursued an independent course of study.”
Indeed, when he and his colleagues read applications last year, they gave the University’s highest internal ranking for intellectual vitality to two of the nine homeschoolers admitted. And an astounding four homeschoolers earned the highest rating for math–something reserved for the top 1 to 2 percent of the applicant pool.
“The distinguishing factor is intellectual vitality,” says Reider. “These kids have it, and everything they do is responding to it.”
Tips for College-Bound Homeschoolers
All details with amazing anecdotes are shared in this article
- “Get at least two of their three recommendations from non-family members – such as, “tutors, mentors, community college professors, or civic leaders they volunteered with–although a parent’s letter will be considered.”
- Don’t worry if you don’t have grades. Missing transcripts is really not a big deal. The article even jokes how homeschoolers are capable of being straight-A valedictorians of their own class of 1. Isn’t he right?
- A detailed curriculum should be supplemented with students writing about themselves and their education. “We would like to hear about how the family chose homeschooling, how the learning was organized and what benefits (and costs, if any) they have derived,” Reider wrote.
- Study for SATs, ACTS, SAT IIs, etc. and aim for perfect scores. “Standardized test scores also carry extra weight, although tests aren’t decisive by themselves. In addition to the mandated sat and act tests, the University urges homeschoolers to take some sat ii subject exams (formerly called achievement tests), even though these aren’t required.”
- Don’t feel pressures to change your homeschooling curriculum to a “traditional” high school curriculum. We have an advantage with our self-teaching students and parents providing supervision, motivation, direction and the means to seek the best mentors and appropriate books.
- Take several college courses and get As. College courses ” help with evaluation and to give students a taste of classroom learning before they arrive on the Farm.”
- Know that our kids are more socially prepared and ready for top-tier universities. Be proud (as you should be, inshaAllah) that research suggests (even though we-homeschoolers-always knew, God bless) that homeschoolers are actually socially and emotionally healthier then the “socialized” school children–therefore are preferred by top-tier universities!
…1999 survey organized by Brian Ray, president of the National Home Education Research Institute. Ray found that the typical homeschooler takes part in at least five social activities outside the home every week–from dance classes and sports teams to scout troops and community theater. He also collected previous findings by educators and psychologists suggesting that children taught at home are actually socially and emotionally healthier than those in schools. They are more comfortable interacting with adults and less likely to pin their self-esteem to the fads and whims of teenagers, Ray says.
Striving for the Best Education is an Obligation in Islam
It’s NOT the prestige and the immense amount of opportunities afforded only to Ivy league and top-tier university students that has my girls and I excited and eager to apply to them, inshaAllah…but, it’s my husband and my firm belief that if we don’t aim for the highest and best; we’ll never reach our highest and best potential. So, reaching high is the only way to go in when we educate our girls as home.
“Are those who know equal to those who know not?” It is only men of understanding who will remember.” Qur’an 39:9
It is incumbent of all Muslim children to be knowledgeable in their deen, which includes and does NOT separate all superior, in depth understanding of ALL subjects: Math, Science, Language Arts, etc. There’ should not be any differentiation between “core” and “elective” subjects in Islam, as our Islamic history never divided the two. This is why I continue to believe Homeschooling is the Ideal Educational System for devout Muslims.
Public and private schools do not have the religious piece, and Islamic schools have not proven themselves collectively in mastering core subjects. Recent academic case studies presently being published (Ponn’s personal conversation with a Cornell-Yale researcher on this topic) suggest that the few “success stories” (children) in Islamic schools would have succeeded academically in non-Islamic schools regardless. So referring to 1-2-3…success students is not a success of that particular school or system, but merely the natural statistical effect of having an excellent student–period.
Also, in a recent college admissions book the author (who got her 2 sons both into 4 Ivies with no rejections) shared in her opening chapter, that Every Parent is a Homeschooler. More and more of the entry into Ivies are not because they are “good/excellent students” in school–it’s everything they do to supplement their education outside of the school walls. So, I’d like to add to her statement, “Therefore they should homeschool full-time”, rather than waste 8-10 hours a day at school (including before & after-school prep time, classes, extra curriculars and homework).
As my family doctor shares her favorite quote, which my girls and I have been reminding ourselves often
“If you don’t strive for perfection, you have no hope for excellence.”
Our end-point may not include Ivy League admission, but working towards and striving for them, will only grant them their greatest opportunities, individually and collectively. Alhumdulilah, this journey thus far has been absolutely invigorating…there’s SO much energy, life and amazingly-deep-profound conversations filling our home.
While I loved teaching while they were babies, and enjoyed the stumbles and achievements of teaching them to talk…alhumdulilah, this FAR exceeds any joy I ever imagined, mashaAllah. The amount of intellectual stimulation in our home on in ALL Multiple Intelligences (ie Art, Logic, Language, People, Self Skills etc.) is like having scholars to relate to on a deep level yet playful and effortless. The depth of their knowledge is motivating to one another, they encourage one another’s passions, applaud their efforts, marvel in ways to figure out how to correct a “mistake” so they strive to discover the answers together. The feed off one another, and so do I!
My role is to provide them with what they need to succeed. They’ve mastered topics FAR beyond my own comprehension, and the humility of having my girls teach me something new every single day is delightful, to say the least. However, they expect and turn to me to direct, lead, advise and “teach” them many new things each and every day.
So, yes–if anything, I am simply sleeping less…mostly because I’m preparing to at least be a 1 if not 2-steps ahead of them for the following day. However, I’m trying not to “prepare” too much, because whatever I “prepare” usually only lasts a mere minutes of lessons and we gain more by learning side-by-side, researching and building together…building our minds and alhumdulilah the memories of keeping their energy, life (vitality) of their possession of highly defined intellect (a state of being intellectual) alive and strong! I like LOVE the new role I serve in my girls’ homeschool journery…however, as they read over my shoulder, they share, “But, Mama…That (the new role) is NOT new to you!” “Awww…MashaAllah.” I am ever-so-blessed.
MashaAllah, I tweeted last night to Antonio and my dear pal: @MegFromCT (a college admissions consultant for 16 years in Greenwich, CT who successfully gets her clients into Ivies & first-tier universities as well).
MashaAllah, we have a track-record, many small successes and tons of encouragement from top-tier university employees, alum, consultants, etc. who are all encouraging our girls to reach high, mashaAllah. We’d like to share any of our tips and lessons on the way, and pray that you will too. There’s definitely a revolution going in the U.S. educational system, and it’s called “Homeschooling!”
Please share your tips, lessons and most of all Your reflections of this post below.
Subhanallah, I didn’t realized, this post is basically bringing my Creating the Most Ideal Islamic Educational System series which began back in 2008, alhumdulilah to full-circle, as home education’s end-goal is adulthood, and inshaAllah for us includes competitive, respectable universities, and graduate schools, inshaAllah.
Creating the Most Ideal Islamic Educational System
- Failures of Modern Schooling – Islamic Perspective
- Education of Muslim Children – Challenges and Opportunities (Problems with Islamic Schools)
- We don’t need School Reform we need an Overhaul
- What are Personalized Learning Centers?
- Washington Post – Muslim homeschooling population growing
- Homeschooling with Multiple Intelligences
- Defining Intellectual Vitality and Intellectual Curiosity
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Oh, thank you for this timely post! Although my son is still several years away from college, I am already researching admissions requirements for homeschool students around the country. I also am helping a high school junior prepare for her college search and application process. Will print this and take it to her. Although she isn’t homeschooled, or Muslim, there is a lot of great information in this post that I’m sure she can use!
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Ponn Sabra Reply:
September 17th, 2011 at 4:30 pm
Hi Malea!
Oh what an honor: To be printed and shared with others.
Hee Hee.
How old is your son? I read great advice “it’s never too early to look for scholarship & $”, there are even contests & competitions with $10,000s for college that are ONLY for kids under 13yo. They are fun & exciting opps too. I’m building a huge spreadsheeet myself.
As for your Jr. applying, the other advice is “do all the research Before Sr. year” (actually recommended at 6th & 7th grade), because Sr. year you should be applying for schools & scholarships.
Last tip: Have her work on all her college application essays next summer, before Sr. year. I’ll be sharing as many tips and tools as them come up, but I believe this is my last “homeschool” post on this main site, as I will be launching our first “channel” on AMM “Homeschool” tomorrow or shortly thereafter.
All my best, in peace.
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For Showing intellectual vitality differs from person to person. If you like poems and find them intellectually exciting, go ahead. Don’t fabricate anything about yourself though! Keep it honest and straight from the heart.
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Ponn Sabra Reply:
September 23rd, 2011 at 1:04 pm
Poetry is a highly-skilled art, talent and intellectual ability. The craft of the written word is not mastered my normal folks, so being an accomplished published poet with years to prove one’s passion and desire to build upon one’s craft is definitely displaying “Intellectual Vitality”.
At American Muslim Mom, we only promote keeping things “honest and straight from the heart”. Since first tier universities and Ivies are looking for “Intellectual Vitality” which involves years of portfolio work, descriptive essays, highly-specialized expert letter of recommendations, it’s nearly impossible to “fabricate anything”. This is why homeschoolers have an advantage over public school students, since public school kids lack time to hone into their true intellectual passions, they try to “catch-up” by only showing 2-4 years (high school experience) to demonstrate their “passions”, however homeschoolers have the track record of proven details of it lasting for many many years.
If I am misinterpreting your comment, in that you do NOT believe IV can be “fabricated”, please kindly reply, as I’m quite confused by your statements.
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I may not be a muslim mom but i enjoyed reading this post. There a some tips that is helpful and I like this sayings “If you don’t strive for perfection, you have no hope for excellence.” I’t made me think.. =)
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Ponn Sabra Reply:
September 23rd, 2011 at 1:05 pm
We strive to make all our readers “think” Muslim and non-Muslims. BTW, half of our readers ARE non-Muslim. So, welcome and thanks for commenting!
Please come and comment often!
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My son started at Stanford this week. I know his ‘intellectual vitality’ was a big part of why he is there. As a toddler he would pull every gadget apart to see how it worked (very annoying for us then … if we’d known it would get him into Stanford we might have been happier about it!)
He has been homeschooled since 5th grade and that has given him the opportunity to select electives that interested him (eg Game Theory and Modern Physics) and to enter many contests (one involved inventing something an developing a business plan to sell the item – he and his partner were the winners).
He has taught himself many computer skills eg how to build a computer, do video editing etc.
Our dinner table is a place where current affairs and what the kids have studied for the day is discussed – another factor that helped kept the intellectual vitality alive. And of course, he read a lot!
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Ponn Sabra Reply:
October 5th, 2011 at 2:26 pm
Many congratulations Meryl to you, your son & your whole family! What exciting news! And, thanks for all the detailed info–truly motivational and helpful info for all college-bound homeschoolers!
May I ask I few questions?
- Did your son apply to other top-tier (top 50 universities) or Ivies?
- If so, would you kindly share which ones he go in, wait-listed, rejected?
- Can you offer additional insights regarding what you think of the 1st 2 questions?
Much of what you shared is definitely what we experience in our home, it’s ALWAYS lively in deep, fun, conversations, that even the trivial, mundane things turns into a deep, analytical discussion or debate! Love the Learning process!!
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Your post is so informative and helpful, it gives us a lot of options. Thanks!
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Ponn Sabra Reply:
October 5th, 2011 at 2:27 pm
Thanks Jewel. So, I’d assume you’re homeschoolers too, then, right!?
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I agree, your post is very helpful. This is my first time to stumbled upon your post and you’ve shared lots of ideas to choose from. Thanks.
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Ponn Sabra Reply:
October 5th, 2011 at 2:28 pm
Another beauty of homeschooling: “LOTS of ideas to choose from!”
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I think showing intellectual vitality differs from person to person. Just keep it sincere and directly from the heart.
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i just love reading your post, and learning from it. other’s comments/opinion too are very interesting.
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I was homeschooled my entire life and loved it! It was a fantastic experience.
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interesting post! this is a great review to compare with. thanks for sharing your insight.
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intellectual vitality is GOD gifted it’s not in ones hand but someone who has intellectual energy he/she will surely have the ability to capture others interest, learn fast and engage with others in a positive manner.
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This is what you call a quality post!
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I would tend to agree with you that we must teach our girls but it’s not necessary to teach them in home. Parents should do their best to educate them so that one day they become a good mother and a respectful lady.
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Intellectual vitality comes when you have curiosity to learn about something. Curiosity polishes your intellectuality while searching new things/ideas.
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